Breastfeeding is a really big topic. I remembered attending the pre-natal class and the nurse emphasized again and again that we should persevere no matter what/who/how/why and provide baby with this best nutrition and gift by God. I have gained some personal experience and knowledge from a lot of helpful friends in the past months and would like to share some insights with my dear sisters.
1. The repeated emphasis by the doctors/nurses proved to be very helpful because indeed in the first week when milk hasn't really come through, pple have already started to "throw cold water" and ask me to give formula because there was no milk. DO NOT be deceived. Stay positive, because every mother WILL HAVE milk unless there is a medical or exceptional condition. Continue to let your baby suckle even though there isn't seem to be a lot of milk. Also drink lots of fluid especially soup (green papaya fish soup is highly recommended). My gynae also prescribed fenugreek. Though my milk flow was retarded to come, it DID come eventually and i'm still happily breastfeeding my baby. If your confinement lady suggests for you to give formula, think twice. Consult your lactation consultant to determine if you really have a low milk supply.
2. When you breastfeed, there is a "letdown" effect, where a lot of milk will be released. Apart from the letdown where milk comes in sprays and jets, your breasts will have milk but smaller drops. The letdown causes both breasts to produce a lot of milk at the same time. So while you are feeding on one side, you might find the other side dripping. Sometimes, when the baby suckle for a long time, you may experience two letdowns in the single feed.
3. After the first month when the milk supply is getting established, you can try expressing breast milk so your hubby can feed and have some baby bonding. Another benefit is when you pump you will empty your breasts, making your body think that the milk is all finished so it will start to produce more. In this way the milk supply will go up. Of course you will also avoid the painful transition to bottle later on if you start the baby in the early months.
4. You can try letting baby suckle on one side and manual pump the other side at the same time. In this way, you will capture the letdown milk on the other breast and it will not go to waste. I use the Avent manual pump and it works very well for me.
5. When you are going back to work, you may need to express your milk in the fastest way. My neighbour lent me the Medela dual electric pump which works wonders in a couple of minutes! It drains both sides in a jiffy and you can go back to your work desk with minimal disruption! So for you mothers who really want to get the most breastmilk for your baby, you may consider getting both the manual pump and electric pump. Use the electric one during working hours and the manual one when you go home to direct feed your baby.
I'm definitely not an expert on this topic, but so many thanks to all the experienced mums whom had so selflessly shared their learnings. Let's continue to persevere in this noble task and calling of nursing our babies!